Most parents complain that their teenage children never follow them. They do not obey them, and the teenagers always grumble about their parents. They say that our parents don't understand us. They don't trust us. Both of them had complaints about each other that they don't love or have time for us. Due to this, a communication barrier creates between parents and their children.
Being a parent is a God gift, unluckily many people are not blessed with this gift of God. Everyone wants to be a good parent, but parenting is not such an easy task. It's like walking alone in a jungle. Especially parenting a teenager, our children tried their best to pissed us. They sometimes get too much on our nerves, and hence we lost our temperament. We ultimately lose our hopes, and we don't know what to do. They don't follow any rules, and if you got strict with them, it becomes more challenging to handle them. Sometimes you think that your child develops every worse thing which ashamed you in front of everybody. That's why mostly you avoid parties and get-together, and for any reason, if you have to go out, you make sure that they are not with you. From eating to sleeping, every task is difficult. Yet you love them because they are the part of your world. You cannot imagine your life without them. Keep this thing in mind that your children are proliferating at this stage.so you have to be careful in your actions and words of mouth. It's hard to find a perfect and bright child, and if you find them, they then appreciate their parents because they are the reason behind each and everything. Whatever a child does, it shows precisely how you are because you are the reason for his upbringing. Here are some tips that will build up a good and healthy relationship between you and your child.
The biggest reason for your child's lousy temperament is your ignorance. Never ignore your child. Build a habit of listening to them carefully. If you will ignore your child and you will not be there whenever they need it. At this stage, they want that there will always be someone who listens to them and understand what they want to say. They want to share their feelings and ideas. Communication plays an essential role in our lives, and this is a necessary step. If you will not buildup this habit with your child from the teenage, he will not listen to others simply because he will lack the ability to look like you. And you were the reason behind this negligence.
We all love compliments, if you appreciate your child, he will be more motivated. If you curse your child on his failure, he gets demoralized and will lose his self-respect and will not become confident. His morale will become low. Try to appreciate your child on small achievements. Then he will become more motivated towards his work. Compliment him in a daily family gathering. He will surely become skillful in each action on which you compliment him.
Teenage children are very observant. They focus on each of your activities. As this is their learning stage, so they try to adapt to each business quickly. So try to involve your children a little bit in your work. Once you teach them how to do work. Their mind will retain it for a long time. On the contrary, if you will just tell them, they will forget it, if you show them, they will understand it, but if you involve them, they will never forget. Teenage children love to learn, it just depends on how you teach them.
You can plan an outing trip once a month. In this way, you all can have a good time with each other.so once in a month, you can cut out your busy schedule and make yourself energetic with your children's company. This will show a caring attitude towards your children. Often surprise them, don't disclose the place where you are going, and make them curious, and they will become more interested.
Take out some time and act like your kid. Give company to them, whatever they are playing gets along with them. Feel like them. If you give importance to them and have fun with them, they feel good, and they will come closer to you. Often teenager wants their parents also play with them, and they want to be your friend, so clear all barriers and become like them.
Basically, there is a special bond between you and your kid. They are the ones who will teach you the meaning of unconditional love. Your love for them has no limits. You are the one who loves them at any cost.so express your love to them. Hug them and kiss them to show your appreciation. It will develop a much more reliable connection between you.
This is the stage at which you can embellish or destroy your child's life. Build a strong communication network with your child, so you will know what is happening in his life. Keep an eye on him, how he is reacting and communicating. In which company he dwells. Invite his/her friends at home and have a friendship with them too.